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高情商的人,都有这几种习惯

时间:2018-03-13 09:11:33  分类:经典网文  阅读:

YOUYITIAOGUANGWEILIUCHUANDEGONGSHI:RENDECHENGGONG=1%DEZHISHANG+99%DEQINGSHANG。

HENDUORENHUIFAXIAN,YOUXIEPENGYOUKENENGMEIYOUGAOXUELI,DANHETALIAOTIANSHIZONGSHIGANJUERUMUCHUNFENG,ZHEILEIRENWANGWANGZAISHEHUISHANG“CHIDEKAI、HUNDEHAO”;ERYOUXIEREN,YICHUKOUJIUYIPIANLENGCHANG,TAMENZAISHEHUIZHONGYEZONGSHICHUCHUPENGBI。

JIUQIYUANYIN,JIUSHIQINGSHANGDEWENTI。6GEGAOQINGSHANGDEXIGUAN,YIDIANDIANDEGAIBIANZHENIDERENSHENG。

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高情商的人,善于倾听

QINGTINGSHIYIZHONGYISHU,YIZHONGPINDE,GENGSHIYIZHONGGAOQINGSHANGDEBIAOXIAN。

什么叫善于倾听?善于倾听就是专注的等别人把话说完。

QINGSHANGGAODERENSHUOCHULAIDEHUA,SHIXIANQINGTINGBIERENDEXINLIHUA,BIANTINGBIANXIANG,ZAIZHANZAIDUIFANGDEJIAODULAISHUO。SUOYITAMENDEHUACAIGENGRONGYISHOUDAODAJIADEHUANYING。

《SHIJI》ZHONGYAN:“YANNENGTING,DAONAIJIN”。RENMENBEIQINGTINGDEXUYAOYUANYUANDAYUQINGTINGBIERENDEXUYAO。SUOYI,RUGUONIXIANGHUODEBIERENDEXIAI,JIUYINGXUEHUILIYONGZIJIDEERDUO,ZUOGEDONGDEQINGTINGDEREN。

ZIQIQINGTINGBOYAZHIGAOSHANLIUSHUI,YUSHIYOULEZHIYIN;SANMAOYUHEXIDESHENQING,SHILIUNIANSHIJIANLIBUDUANFUMIANERLAIDEBIAOBAI。

RUGUONICHENGLEBIERENDEZHONGSHITINGZHONG,DUIFANGYIDINGHUIJUEDEZIJISHOUDAOLEZHONGSHI,CONGERDUINICHANSHENGHAOGAN,YUANYITONGNIJIAOWANG。

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高情商的人,能控制自己的情绪

KONGZHIBUZHUZIJIQINGXUDEREN,QISHINENGLIZAIDAYEWUJIYUSHI。

ZHANGFEIBUDANNENGLICHAOQIANG,ERQIENENGZHENGSHANZHAN。DANZHANGFEIZHISI,QISHIHENBIEQU,TABUSHIZAIZHANCHANGSHANGKANGKAIFUSI,ERSHIBEIZIJIDEQINGXUSHASILE。

TINGDAOHAOXIONGDIGUANYUBEIHAI,TASHOUXIANJIUYIZHIBUZHUAISHANG,XUELEIZHANJIN。SUIHOUJIEZUIBIANDASHIBING,YAOTAMENRIYEGANZAOBINGQI,XIANGYAOMASHANGWEIXIONGDIBAOCHOU。ZUIHOUBUXIAFANQIANGYUZHANGDARENWUKEREN,ZHIHAOCHENZHANGFEIZUIJIUSHI,JIANGTACISHAZAIJUNYINGLI。

每个人都会产生各种各样的情绪,但是情商高的聪明人,会更好地管理支配不良情绪,把不良情绪巧妙转移,不做情绪的奴隶。

QINGXUYIYUBODONG、XINUQINGYIXINGYUSEDEREN,YUQISHUOSHITANLV,BURUSHUOSHIQUEFANEIXINLILIAN。

RENHESHIHOUDOUNENGZUODAOTOUNAOLENGJING,XINGWEILIZHI,YIZHIGANQINGDECHONGDONG,KEZHIJIQIEDEYUWANG,SHIZIJISHIZHONGBAOCHILIANGHAODEXINJING,XINQINGKAILANG,XIONGHUAIHUODA,CAISHIGAOQINGSHANGDEBIAOXIAN。

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高情商的人,拿得起,放得下

RENSHENGCONGBUSHIYIPIANTANTU,WOMENHUISHOUHUOXIANHUAHEZHANGSHENG,YEHUIJINGLICUOZHEHEKUNAN。DANGAOQINGSHANGDEREN,JIYOUYONGQIHEDANDANGNADEQI,YOUYOUXIONGHUAIHEZHIHUIFANGDEXIA。

HANCHAOYOUGEJIAOMENGMINDEREN,BEILEGEDATAOPINGZAILUSHANGZOU,JIEGUOYIBUXIAOXINPINGZIDIAOZAIDISHANGLE,MENGMINJIURENGJIUCHAOQIANZOU,TOUYEBUHUI。LURENWENTAZENMEKANDOUBUKANYIXIA,MENGMINSHUO:“TAOZIYIJINGPOLE,ZAIKANHAIYOUSHENMEYONGNI?”

拿得起是生存,放得下是生活;拿得起是能力,放得下是智慧。

FANLIFUZUOGOUJIANFUGUOCHENGGONGHOU,QIGUANCONGSHANG,GUIYINSHIJIAN,YUXIZIXIAOSAFANZHOUYUXIHUZHISHANG;WENZHONGBUTINGQUANZU,ZUIZHONGDEDAOLE“TUSIGOUPENG”DEKEBEIJIEJU。

QINGGANYEHAO,XUMINGYEBA,YAONADEQIFANGDEXIA,NADEQI,SHIZAIHUBIEREN,FANGDEXIA,SHICHENGQUANZIJI,ZHEICAISHIGAOQINGSHANGRENYINGYOUDESUYANG。

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高情商的人,做事有分寸

ZHOUGUOPINGCENGSHUOGUO:

YIQIEJIAOWANGDOUYOUBUKECHAOYUEDEZUIHOUJIEXIAN,ZHEILIANGRENZHIJIAN,ZHEIJIEXIANSHIBUQINGXIDE,RANERYOUSHIQUEDINGDE。YIQIEMAFANHECHONGTUDOUQIYUWUYIZHONGXIANGTUPOZHEIJIEXIAN。

KEYISHUOSHENMEHUA,NENGSHUODAOSHENMECHENGDU,RUHERANGDUIFANGGANJUESHUSHI,DUIZHEIXIEWENTIDEZHANGWOTIXIANZHEYIGERENQINGSHANG。

ZHENZHENGDEGAOQINGSHANG,SHIDAIRENYOUFENCUN,ZIJIYOUDIXIAN。

YOUCICENGGUOFANGUOSHENGRI,MINGJIANGBAOCHAOQINFUANQINGQIANLAIHESHOU。BAOCHAOTASHIYIGECUREN,TADEJUNDUIXIANGYINENGZHAN、NENGQIANGWENMING,YINCITAYESHIYIGEFUREN。

BAOCHAOYIGONGDAILAISHILIUBAOLIWU,QIZHONGXUDUOZHENGUIDEZHUBAOGUWANZHILEI。CENGGUOFANLANZHIERXIAO,CONGZHONGTIAOLEYIDINGXIAOMAOSHOUXIA,QITADEDOUSONGHAIBAOCHAO。

CENGGUOFANDEZUOFA,JIMEIYOUWEIBEIZIJIDEYUANZE,YOUBUZHIYUBOLESHOUXIADAJIANGDEMIANZI,KEWEIJIYOUFENCUN。

分寸,是一把量尺:做人没分寸,过亲则疏,过热便冷。

DANGNIBUHUIZAIZHONGRENDEMIANQIANGUYIRANGBIERENNANKAN,ZHIDAOGAIZENYANGYURENQIADAOHAOCHUDEXIANGCHUSHI,NIJIUZHANGWOLEGAOQINGSHANGDEFENCUN。

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高情商的人,懂得适时拒绝

ZHONGGUOWENHUALI,JIANGJIUZUOSHIYAOGUJIMIANZI、ZUODETIMIAN,BUNENGRANGBIERENZAIBEIHOUCHUONIJILIANGGU,GUJIZIJIDEXINGWEIDUITARENDEYINGXIANG,YIJITARENDUIZIJIDEKANFA。

DANYOUSHI,DONGDEJUJUE,RENSHENGCAINENGHUORANKAILANG。JUJUEXUYAOYONGQI,ERGAOQINGSHANGDERENDOUDONGDESHISHIJUJUE。

QIANZHONGSHUQUSHIHOU,XINXIYANGJIANGYIJIUDEFEIXIAOTONGYIWEIZIJIDEJIHUILAILE,JIUYIGUANXINLAOYOUDEMINGYILAIKANWANGYANGJIANG,XIWANGNENGZHAOGUTA。FEIXIAOTONGDEYISI,CONGHUIRUYANGJIANGZIRANSHIKANZAIYANLI。

DANWEILEBUZHESUNLAOPENGYOUDEMIANZI,YANGJIANGJIUZAITALINZOUSHIDUITASHUO:“LOUTIBUHAOZOU,NIYIHOUYEBUYAO‘ZHINANERSHANG’LE。”

FEIXIAOTONGYESHICONGMINGREN,TINGDONGLEYANGJIANGDEYANWAIZHIYI,ZICIYESILENEITIAOXIN。

JUJUEBUSHILENGMO,ERSHIJUJUEBUHELIYAOQIU、JUJUEBUSHUYUFENNEIZHISHI、JUJUERANGZIJITONGKU。

高情商的人,会用适当的拒绝方式,能让自己活得顺利与满足,也让自己不会过于委屈。


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